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Must be careful...

November 24th, 2005 (08:02 pm)
worried

current mood: worried
current song: CKY - escape from hellview

I'm not really sure what to say here to help me figure this one out but let's see what happens. Some back story to this little situation...

I've become good friends with this army female and when she was ordered by the doctor to use crutches I began to help her with the little things that make getting around on crutches difficult. I've noticed a mark difference in the way we've interacted now though and I think I should talk to her about it especially now this new situation has happened. I do not wish to disrupt a wonderful friendship but if it is necessary I do not wish to hurt her either. I just need to find out some facts and see what is up.

This evening we watched the football game together with some of our other friends and were having a pretty good time. That changed when it became time for us to leave and she found out someone took her crutches as a joke. It didn't take the culprit very long to arrive and we stood around joking about it when another shipmate who had been standing with us at the time forcibly removed the crutches from the person who took them. I should've noticed that he had become too aggressivly attached to my friend and escorted her back to her barracks, but at the time I didn't think it prudent because she had told me she was leaving and would call me when she was ready to go. Then I recieved a call from her telling me how uncomfortable he made her when he escorted her back to her room. We talked a bit so I could make sure she was alright and was comfortable going out this evening with the plans we had made with the others. She said she was comfortable but she wanted me to keep close to her this evening in case the person who made her uncomfortable joined us at the club we were going to.

I want to make sure she stays safe this evening but I do not wish to become too close. I am glad other friends will be there with us so I can find out if she was just asking me to stay close to her because I am her friend and the others will be doing the same or if it is something I need to check before it hurts someone. In my head I know that this is probably not what I think it is but it concerns me none the less. I just hope that things are okay. Man, I'm probably too tired.

LOL, the song I'm listening to definitly goes with this situation...heheh.

Comments

Posted by: Nobody (studyofme)
Posted at: November 25th, 2005 05:44 am (UTC)

Sticky sticky. At least you're aware of a possible problem before anything has occured. That way you can make sure that it doesn't get too out of hand.

Posted by: Sarge (sarge104)
Posted at: November 25th, 2005 04:30 pm (UTC)
It was alright...

Lol, I had fun at the club but the techno room we were in was a bit crowded. I tend to gravitate towards harder bass so I went and visited some of the other rooms. I think I'm just not going to hang out with her so often. I still think we need to talk but I don't think it would be a very good thing to do at this point. Right now she needs support from her friends.

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